Becoming My Mother … Happily!

I think every girl wonders if she will become her mother. Some hope they don’t become their mother at all and others long to be exactly like them. I never really thought about this … until two weeks ago.

I came home from work with my hand looking like this …

You see I was on my way home from work and I remembered that I forgot to order the cake at Sam’s Club for the Girl Scout Birthday Box Event. At a red light, I found an ink pen in my purse and wrote “Call Sam’s Club” on my hand. The kids noticed it as soon as I got in the door and fussed at me. I found this overly funny but realized that they get fussed at for writing on themselves.

The next day my parents came out to see us. My mom saw my hand still with the writing on it and laughed. I told her I thought of her writing on her on hand as soon as I finished writing on my hand. I explained that I didn’t have any alcohol pads in my pocket to wash it off and she smiled.

You see mom always wrote on her hand when we were growing up … the writing would start when she was at work as a nurse at the hospital. It would be codes or phone numbers or a reminder of this or that … at home the lists would get “washed” off with an alcohol pad in her scrub pocket. The lists would sometimes start off with reminders about us three kids or something that had to be done that night.

The good thing about writing on your hand is you won’t lose it but you will wash it off so make sure you can get to it fast when you write on your hand. I admit that I scrubbed off the “Call” and left “Sam’s Club” on there until Sunday so I remembered to actually pick up the cake! As I scrubbed the ink off my hand, I smiled once again.

Yes I am becoming my mother in more ways than I can count and you know what … I am happy about it!

So Happy Mother’s Day to my mom and all of the other moms out there!

 

Playdate Planet

In our seemingly endless stream of emails, we recently found Playdate Planet.  As a stay-at-home dad of three kids, playdates are a nice treat for the kids and for me.  I have to admit that it is even better if I can pawn two of them off at a time but any break from all three of them gives me a little time to breathe.  The biggest issue I have with playdates is actually scheduling them.  If we aren’t busy then the other families are busy, so we end up in this voicemail phone tag or Facebook delayed chat thing trying to work out dates that might work.  If we try to include a playdate with more than two families, the whole deal just falls apart even faster.

When checking out Playdate Planet, the feature that caught my eye first and foremost was that they Connect with Facebook.  As I pointed out to someone recently, I don’t even have email addresses for half of the parents that have kids the same age as my kids.  We are friends on Facebook and if we want to reach out to each other, we just use that.  I was able to use the Connect with Facebook feature and send out a mass invitation to selected friends to join the site.  It really doesn’t get easier than that!  Now I am trying to get the family calendar from Beth so we can plan our first playdate with some of Grace’s friends soon.  Generally speaking, she keeps track of the calendar with all the family appointments, cookie booths for Girl Scouts, and (coming soon!) soccer games…really everything that we do!  Now that I think about it, I think I might be able to make my life as a new soccer coach a little easier by using Playdate Planet to schedule the team events like the end of season celebration!

If you have problems scheduling these things like I do, you can Like Playdate Planet on Facebook and Follow Playdate Planet on Twitter to find out more about them!

We are especially excited to join the giveaway that Playdate Planet is hosting to introduce families to their site. This a group giveaway and there will be two winners. NOTE: Comments on this post do not count as entry options but we would love to hear what you think about Playdate Planet or your playdate planning experiences!

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Oh the Noise

Is your house noisy?

Ours is … we have three kids five and under. Even when the oldest is at Kindergarten, the house is still LOUD. Little Dude contributes to the noise factor a lot. He loves to dump the bins of toys so he can hear the crash. Really?! I gave the kids my kitchen toys that my mom found recently. (This HAS to be the last box of my stuff she has! I just can’t figure out where they are coming from in my parent’s house!) Well my kitchen play toys are HARD plastic that clanks together and tin/metal pots and plates that clank together EVEN more. Yesterday, it was the pots banging that drove me to the bathroom to escape. Yes, the bathroom is my escape. I will turn on the hair dryer or get in the shower to drown out the noise … or even better do both … but of course not at the same time. Now a massaging shower experience like that from the Monoglide Hand Shower would be a great stress relief for both Brian and I!

 

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NOTE: This post was written in support of a campaign by American Standard in exchange for a product. No other compensation was received.

The Arithmetic of Allowance

We are pleased to feature a guest post by Laura Laing author of Math for Grownups!

You probably find it pretty darned easy to encourage literacy. In fact, there are countless magazine articles and books and workshops out there on this very subject. And so all good parents read to their kids every night, play word games with them, give them magnetic letters for the fridge.

But what about math? If you’re like most parents, the idea of working math into the day probably seems down right daunting. Scary even.

It’s not as hard as you think, especially if you’re willing to give into your children’s demands for a regular allowance. Money is an instant math lesson—and can
motivate even the most reluctant student (adult or child).

Here’s how:

The Even Split: If you want to use allowance to encourage savings and charitable giving, you’re at least half way there. One way to do this is to require kids to split their allowance into three equal accounts: spending, saving and giving. If your five year old gets $3 per week, $1 goes in each pot. But what about the kid who gets $6 a week? Or worse, $10 a week? Pose these questions, and let your child figure it out.
The lesson: Factoring and division

Percent, Per Week: For a more complex math problem, consider uneven distributions, say 20% spending, 20% giving and 60% saving. Or encourage your
child to put aside a certain percent of savings for a particular goal, like a new iPod. Or enforce a different distribution around the holidays, when she buys gifts for her friends. If she can’t do the math, she doesn’t get paid!
The lesson: Percents

Accounting for Savings: If you have a little investor on your hands—and some of us do—show him how to create a simple register for recording his savings and spending. He’ll get a first-hand look at how his stash can grow (or shrink).
The lesson: Addition and subtraction

Project Savings: Your child will inevitably want something she can’t afford. In that situation, help her figure out when she’ll have enough money in savings. Can she wait that long? If not, consider giving her a loan, with interest and a regular payment plan. Show her how the interest is calculated and even help her figure out the total interest on the loan.
The lesson: Using formulas and problem solving

Math may be hard for you, but with a little bit of creativity you can help your kids practice their skills, and become a little more savvy with their own money—a
profitable prospect for everyone!

Laura Laing is the author of Math for Grownups, a funny and accessible look at how adults use math in their everyday lives. She blogs at www.mathforgrownups.com.

Shari’s Berries for Mother’s Day

** This giveaway has ended. Thanks to all who entered! The winner was comment #19! **

I recently had the chance to review the Cheesecake Trio & Full Half Dozen Giant Dipped Fancy Berries thanks to Shari’s Berries whom included me in their Mother’s Day promotion event including Strawberries Covered in Chocolate for Mom!

Details …


  • 6 Fancy Berries
  • 3 Mini Chocolate Cheesecakes
  • Item #30005204

A delectable assortment of individual serving mini cheesecakes including a Classic New York cheesecake, a rich and smooth white chocolate cheesecake and a luscious chocolate Rocky Road cheesecake. Enjoy these decadent desserts with six Fancy Berries.

My Thoughts …
Ever want Chocolate Dipped Strawberries Delivered? The service at Shari’s Berries is great. The items came in a box with a cool pack so they stayed fresh and cold! I picked this item as an early birthday for my husband/Mother’s Day celebration. My husband’s birthday is May 7th so it always near Mother’s Day and we try to combine the celebrations.
He loves cheesecake and I love chocolate covered strawberries so this was a perfect sweet treat for us. The strawberries were definitely giant in size. I have picked a lot of strawberries in my day and these were insanely huge! The chocolate was nice and rich but not too sweet. Yum. The cheesecakes were beautiful. They are so pretty in the little box and can be frozen for up to 2 months after you get them. That might just happen to one of these. I did get a few bites of the one cheesecake and it was yummy too.

If you are like me though, your biggest problem will be deciding what to get at Shari’s Berries. The selection is so amazing that each time you click a link you find something that looks so good!

Want to order something now for Mother’s Day?! Get 15% off your order with the coupon code BERRYGOOD. So when you think about Mothers Day Chocolate Dipped Strawberries … think Shari’s Berries for sure!

I am pleased to announce I have been provided with the opportunity to giveaway a $50 gift card to Shari’s Berries to a reader!!!!

This drawing will end Monday, May 9th at 11:59pm EST. I may pick the winner using Random.org. The winner will have 48 hours to reply with their address. You must include your email address in your comment or have it in your profile so you can be contacted if you are a winner! Please make sure I can see your email address!!! You must complete the Mandatory Entry for the additional entries to count.
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Five Favorite Family Time Ideas

Top FIVE Favorite Family Time Ideas for Little Ones

All of my kids are four and under so this list geared towards the little ones in my life!

1) Bubbles. Aren’t they awesome? How can you not simple when you see them? (Plus they are CHEAP!)
2) Sidewalk Chalk. If you can walk past that massive blob of color on our sidewalk without smiling, you aren’t welcome at our house! I love that art work!
3) Chase the ball … Frisbee … whatever. The kids are still young enough to chase stuff and not think we are crazy telling them to chase it.
4) Coloring. This the type of art I can manage! I can color between the lines and impress the heck out of my kids. I love that! =)
5) Cooking. Now this a messy one but oh the kids love it and I try to remember the fun as I clean up the mess. The floor needs cleaned anyway, right?!

Do you love these ideas? Do you have other ideas to share? Leave me a comment and let me know!!

NOTE: I wrote this blog post while participating in the TwitterMoms and LEGO blogging program, making me eligible to get a prize pack. For more information on how you can participate, click here.




Friday Favorite

Friday Favorites is another weekly feature here at Simply Living on a Budget. The whole point of this feature is to share some of my favorite finds. Anything is game. Food. Cleaning supplies. Kid stuff. Garden favorites. Recipes. Anything that I really like and want to randomly post about. Everything in Friday Favorites is something that I use and bought on my own.
Up this week … again (see my first post HERE)
Retractable Gate from One Step Ahead
Details …
Presto-chango: that’s how quickly this retractable safety gate “disappears!” Just pull it out when you need it, and roll it up when you don’t. Don’t let the soft mesh fool you; this gate is sturdy enough for stair tops and even outdoor use.

Our review …
We just ordered another one of these gates. It has been redesigned … for the BETTER! The open mechanism is so much easier. PLUS the gate comes with two sets of wall units. You can take the gate off the wall and move it another location in this house!! This is going to be great for the preschool area!!

Do you love this gate too? Leave me a comment and let me know!

Did you miss last week’s Friday Favorite? Find it here!

If you have a suggestion for a Friday Favorite, leave me a comment and let me know.

Friday Favorites

Friday Favorites is another weekly feature here at Simply Living on a Budget. The whole point of this feature is to share some of my favorite finds. Anything is game. Food. Cleaning supplies. Kid stuff. Garden favorites. Recipes. Anything that I really like and want to randomly post about. Everything in Friday Favorites is something that I use and bought on my own.
Up this week …

Silpada Silver Snake Necklace (N0993)
with
Two Silver Girl Pendants (S1746)
and
One Silver Boy Pendant (S1745)


This was my Mother’s Day present to myself. My necklace has two little girl charms and one little boy charm. The order is girl, girl, boy to represent my kids. I have gotten so many compliments on this necklace, I can’t even begin to count them. Simply put, I love this necklace. Plus, Little Dude hasn’t broken it! YAY! I will admit it was a little pricey but since it was my Mother’s Day present, I justified the cost. Plus I figured it was better to get something I would wear often. I have been wanting something that represents my kids and this is just perfect for me and my style. My girls come up to me when I am wearing it and say their names plus Little Dude’s as they touch the charms. It can’t get better than that!

Silpada has independent representatives which do catalog parties, home parties, and online orders. Coryn is my local representative that I ordered this from at a friend’s home party. You can check out her site here if you are wanting this necklace for your own!

(I realized it is near impossible to get a picture of this necklace so that is why I just “made” a picture of the pendants I have.)

Do you love this necklace too? Leave me a comment and let me know!

Did you miss last week’s Friday Favorite? Find it here!

If you have a suggestion for a Friday Favorite, leave me a comment and let me know.

Double Duty Diva Breastfeeding Gift Guide

I really pleased to host the Double Duty Diva Breastfeeding Gift Guide!

If you a breastfeeding mom, know a breastfeeding mom, or hope to soon be a breastfeeding mom, this Gift Guide is for you!!

Thanks to all of the Double Duty Divas who contributed. Be sure to check out their recommendations and their blogs!

Pumpin Pals (Hand-Free Pump System) at Cool Baby Kid
Bravado at Experimental Mommy
Bebe Au Lait at Simply Stacie,
A Mother’s Boutique Stylish Nursing Clothes at Thrifty & Chic Mom
Sweet Wee Bairn at the Mom Buzz
Blush Topless Undershirt at The B Keeps Us Honest
Bebe Dulce Peek-a-boo Clip, Baby Loving Mama at Christian Clippers
Medela Quick Clean Micro-Steam Bags at What Mommies Need
Evenflo Comfort Select Performance Breast Pump at Just a mom’s take on things…My Sweet Baby Breastfeeding Cover at Rave and Review
Nizo nursing bra at Mommy Reporter
My Breast Friend at Christian Clippers
Medela Sleep Bra at The Art of Being Mom

My personal recommendations …
Expressiva Nursing Shirt
Moboleez Nursing Cover
Hotslings Milkdaze Cami
Medela Freestyle Pump

Two of my all time favorite breastfeeding items right now are ..

Hotslings Nursing Cover … the shape and design of this cover makes it truly one of the best ones around!

Blessed Nest Nesting Pillow … hands down the best nursing pillow around!

Thanks for checking out the Double Duty Diva Breastfeeding Gift Guide!!

This gift guide was compiled by the Double Duty Divas blog promotion network.

Thankful for a Simple Gift: Breastfeeding

With the holidays right here, I have been thinking about what I have to be thankful about. As I sat down to write this post about breastfeeding, I realized I have so much to be thankful for when it comes this topic.

My boiled down to the basic facts breastfeeding experiences …
My oldest child was a non-latcher. I was a determined first time mommy though and exclusively pumped for her until I got her to latch but even then was lucky to get her to nurse once a day. It was pure determination on my part to get her to a year on breast milk that got her to that point. My younger daughter and now Little Dude had no issues latching. They both decided to protest the bottle and wait it out for me to get home so that presents its own set of challenges.

With my both of my girls, I had such an over supply of milk that I started donating milk to families in need. After much research, I went with milkshare.com to donate to breast milk directly to families in need. My experiences and connecting with other moms through that network is something that I will always remember. It was such an amazing gift to give someone and something that certainly can’t have a monetary value. It is all from the heart when you hand over hundreds of ounces of frozen breast milk!

I have had many moms tell me that nursing is hard work. It often is. I know that first hand and had to learn to ask for help! It seems that I have had every issue that I can with breastfeeding during the past 3 plus years. At times I wonder why I put myself through the mastitis, thrush, cracked skin, lack of supply, and over supply but I have to say it doesn’t take long to realize why it is a gift worth giving to your baby. It has been the same with all three kids for me. It takes one look at a chubby, growing baby with breast milk dribbled on their face to realize that YOU have provided them with everything it took them to get that way! It makes every painful, frustrating, exhausting moment worth it and all you can do is smile at the little one in your arms as the love pours out of your heart to them.

Why do I continue to blog about breastfeeding?
My posts on breastfeeding started months ago when I passed along the money savings of breastfeeding in this post here. Since then I have been blessed to provide reviews and giveaways on several products related to breastfeeding with the constant reminder that this is a huge budget saver. It has become a passion of mine to share and offer up tips for breastfeeding moms. I can tell you know it didn’t start as a passion. It started as something I wanted to give a try to save my growing family money in our budget. I never thought I would become a voice for breastfeeding among my friends, family, or even on a blog. I feel truly blessed to have this voice and hope that it has provide some of you with the confidence to keep provide the simple gift of breast milk to your little ones.

Is being able to breastfeed your little one of your notes of thanks to be thankful for this holiday season?

This post is part of my submission to the Blog to Inspire Contest at parentingbynature.com.

Inspire Natural Parenting Contest

If you would like more information and my tips about donating milk through milkshare.com or any other breast feeding related questions, you can leave a comment here or send me an email to simplybudgeted at gmail dot com.